I have been in a situation where I wanted to have sex with three women. "It had nothing to do with being gay or hiding my sexuality. However, some men say they experiment with pegging to satisfy their fantasies. The sexpert says he has crossed paths with men who got into marriages with women but frequented gay bars and clubs to find people who will not judge them for wanting to explore their sexuality. We end up having men who get married to cover up and end up living unhappy lives," says Ratshabedi. "There is so much pressure for men to be sexual leaders in society, to play certain sexual roles. He adds historically society has placed people in boxes to limit their sexuality. And gay and straight men find this enjoyable, Ratshabedi says. Ratshabedi says pegging serves to stimulate the prostate gland.
I thought he was gay, but until this day, he is still with a woman and they are married with kids," Ngubane says. I stopped enjoying sex because I felt like a man doing all the work. He became a receiver and that suffocated our relationship. "One day, I asked him that we should go back to our missionary position and he refused. I loved it but eventually got tired because he wanted nothing else. So while I'm penetrating him with my hand, he would be going down on me so we would both reach orgasm. "We played in opposite directions, a position called '6-9'. Ngubane admits she often enjoyed this type of kinky sex. "I loved him a lot, so you can imagine that I did everything I could to make our sex life interesting and fulfilling." Ngubane says she started reading about why men want to be penetrated. "He told me if I'm not comfortable then he can buy a toy so I can penetrate him from behind," says Ngubane. I was not comfortable and we spoke about it. "We would be intimate and he would turn me and penetrate me from behind. Phindile Ngubane says she had an experience with a man who loved anal sex. I just enjoy sex when I'm being penetrated." "I assured her I would not be with her if I were gay. He says at first his girlfriend asked if he were gay. I have never felt like that before it was amazing," said Kamogelo. I told her I wanted to be penetrated with a dildo and when she did it, I reached climax in the most satisfactory manner.
"So, when I introduced her to sex toys, she was fascinated. "My girlfriend has her own sexual preferences, sometimes she wants me to just go down on her until she reaches orgasm because my penetration does not give her the same orgasm she gets from this. Although most men rubbished the sexual method, some men confidentially spoke to Sunday World about why they like pegging.Ī 27-year-old man, who wants to be known only as Kamogelo, described pegging as a preference. Sunday World quizzed individuals on social media to find out if this practice floats their boat.